November 14, 2010

Pretty much

If you've ever wondered about us over here, think of us doing pretty much the same things you are doing.

Taping 44 red and green strips of paper into a countdown chain for the kids' room.

Driving around town.
We outgrew the 3-wheeler and opted for his and hers.  I figured hey, if I'm going to have a motorbike, I'm going to go hot pink!
Going out to lunch after Sunday meeting.



Spending time with friends.

Building forts.

Goofing off.
Looking out the window.
Enjoying warm banana bread (with a burned corner, on account of me not hearing the timer because I was too busy enjoying my three little boys).

People are people, and lives are lives, all over the world.  Our restaurants only have three walls and our kids hang on to our coat pockets in the wind rather than watch movies in the back of a Toyota Highlander, but details aside, we are pretty much the same as anybody else:)

November 13, 2010

liberty

Making me feel quite old seasoned, I now have a child who has had his passport long enough for the thing to expire, or at least it will be expired before we need to use it again.  Apparently, they can no longer see the resemblance.
So, yesterday we dumped our two youngest on poor Alisa and Kate (thanks for your servants' hearts, girls), and boarded a plane with one child for the first time in 3 1/2 years.  My how EASY it is to travel with only one kid in tow, especially if that kid is potty-trained, meal-trained, manners-trained, and can occupy himself with the flight safety manual for the entire hour that it takes to reach the nearest U.S. Consulate.  We ate lunch at a recommended spot, The Sultan, where we thoroughly enjoyed a plate of Musaka that reminded us of the Sudanese food our refugee neighbors in Memphis had made for us in payment for pouring them a new front walk back in 2005.  Consequently, Bright's new passport, when it arrives, will bear the image of him chewing a bite of Turkish Naan.  At least he was chewing with his mouth closed (good boy!)
Our trip to the U.S. Consulate, per Daniel's genius suggestion, doubled as Bright's November field trip.  Two birds with one stone is a favorite idiom of mine these days, particularly when it comes to outings with small children in foreign countries.  We observed our surroundings, talked about the purpose of passports, and practiced reverent behavior and patience while waiting in lines.  Most importantly, we discussed what it means to be an American.

To pass the time in the waiting room, and because I was tired of looking at the images of Obama and Oprah that were framed on the walls and embossed on the covers in the magazine rack,  I picked up a local newspaper that was printed in English.  The cover story was about the guy who brought the tainted milk scandal to light.  He was a national hero at the time, at least among the people, because his picketing and speaking out saved countless children worldwide from being harmed by the tainted milk products, even if it was too late for his own child.  Now, however, he is being thrown in jail for 2 1/2 years for "disrupting the peace."  On his way out of the courtroom, he was hollering that he had done nothing wrong, that he was not being treated fairly.  Of course he had done nothing wrong, and of course he was not being treated fairly; he lives in a nation where people have no rights.  This man's fate is a warning to others who might be considering speaking out against injustice. 

At one point during our wait in line, we looked down together, Bright and I, at the tiled floor beneath our feet, and honored a moment of thankfulness for our having American feet that are welcome on the tile of American floors.  Then, as I squatted beside him, we looked across the quiet room to the Eagle on the top of the of the American flag. 
"The Bald Eagle is our national bird," I told him, "because it is free and has no predators."
*silence*
"Do you remember The Pledge of Allegiance?"  I asked him.
He put his pudgy right hand over his heart and we recited the words together.  I got through the whole thing without crying until we came to the end...

"with liberty and justice for all."

November 09, 2010

Anchorman

We were studying news broadcasting last week (sort of a kindergarten version of Communication 101) and we acted out a television news cast.  Zion chose to wear the clip-on tie and the polyester suit, and he made a fine anchorman!

November 06, 2010

Windowpane Wisdom

Condensation doesn't last.  Bright realized this the other day, and cried for 10 minutes at its passing.  He had been enjoying it so much.  He had stood on his school table, at the far end of his bedroom, swiping his warm finger over the cold glass, making shapes and swirls and letters, stretching his firm little body as far as he could on the tips of his tip-toes to make the most of this wonderful new medium.  But the course of time caught up with him.  The morning sun rose above the building to the east and its heat caused streaks of water to roll down over Bright's shapes and swirls and letters until the window began to look more and more like a plain piece of glass.

Bright learned a tough lesson at mid-morning on that day, a lesson that he will be learning for the rest of his life.  It will take many forms.  This week for him, at 5 1/2 years old, it was a windowpane.  Next year, at 6 1/2 years old, it might be a friendship.  At 16 1/2 years old, it might be a girl.  At 26 1/2 years old, it might be a child born with half a chance.  The lesson begs a question, one without a definitive answer: Do we grab hold of the fleeting and pour ourselves into it, risking the pain of watching it fade, or break, or disappear altogether, or do we learn that it is best to leave the windowpane alone?

I hope that the next time my son sees condensation, he will again climb up on the table and create beauty, even though he knows it will not last.  What I hope for all of my children, and for myself as well, is a real understanding that nothing lasts - not like we would like it to - but that all good things are worth everything we've got.

November 05, 2010

Boys can color, too.

Sonlight homeschool curriculum is not very - shall we say - crafty. Learning through the absorption of outstanding literature is more the focus, which is why this English-major mom chose to go with it. Craftiness has to happen though, so we make our own. Bright initiated this turtle puppet project on our last day off, and while I was busy around the house, hollering, "I'll be right there" over and over, he decided he would create a turtle puppet all on his own. And he did. Completely on his own. From the materials, to the design, to cutting out the tiny turtle legs. I was more than impressed with this artistic deviation from his usual engineering prowess. He named the puppet Sea Horse, of course (broken hearts never forget).  Way to go, Bright the...artist?
And for your viewing enjoyment, Brave's first creation. Good job, Berve! He also said "Uv Ooo" the other day (Nov. 4 to be exact), and OF COURSE he said it to Daddy. Brave is our first daddy's boy.

November 03, 2010

Boating in the city

The other day there was a break in the ever-present clouds, and it just so happened to be Daniel's day off!  I quickly grabbed the picnic basket and started making peanut butter sandwiches, as if in a race against the rain.  The drear held off though, all day long, and we enjoyed a lazy boat ride on Green Lake, complete with take-out gyros and thermoses of hot tea for the adults, and thick brownie wedges for the kids.
The view from the boat.
The kids' "auntie," who is our house-helper/family-member came along, too. It wouldn't have been a family outing without her.
We got home just in time to put everyone down for a nap.  This is the stuff memories are made of.

Dashing.

They clean up nicely.